I think that you know what you have to do, and the sooner you do the sooner you’ll be able to get to better places in your life.
I’m sorry you’re going through this, but I always believe that everything works out for the best and happens for a good reason.
I’m still in love with him but I’m taking a break from contacting him for a couple of days
Please my own question is there is a place you said if your boyfriend have once love you that he can love you again and here now am asking please what can I do to make him love me back because on my own I can’t remember doing anything wrong to him we are just happy all of a sudden he changed he started giving me excuses am busy with work I don’t want to distracted everything started changing he doesn’t reply my text he doesn’t call me like he use to if he call or pick he talks to me like someone else he hangs up my call sometime and say am busy uptill now am so confused and the whole thing is seriously bordering me eating me up yes I know he has actually started cheating on me yet keep claiming am busy but that is not Wat am concerned of my problems is he has time for dem but not me anymore I really love him and I can’t afford to lose him what do I do pls
Hi, I am a bit younger than most other relationship holders but I have been with my boyfriend for just over a year now. Recent.y though he seems to be ignoring me. I sometimes join his online games and message him. He doesn’t reply, if he does it is ages after the message was sent like several weeks after! He says he loves me a lot but the longest conversation we have had is a hi or a nod of a hello. I have tried going to his house, it didn’t work so well. Please advise girls I really need the guidance on what to do.
The same thing happened to me but our one year anniversary is next saturday. He saw me two days ago, on easter and he made everything seem so normal and we were intimate. The next day he was avoiding my texts for hours and saying he was busy. He sent texts to my mom and sister before he even gave me the breakup text. He still wants to be friends and tells me that he misses me and wants a future with me. We hardly ever fought at all and I respected his space and i trusted him. We did have a huge fight and i asked him if he wanted a break and he said no so we were working things out. He said he didn’t feel the same for the past 2 weeks but still misses me and wants contact. He doesn’t have other girls he’s talking to but I don’t want to be strung along :(. But I have a feeling that there is a future with us. Perhaps we needed a break from each other. Idk I’m so heartbroken because we supported each other and loved each other so much.
I am really worried for him and our relationship
Aj, sounds like you’re in high school or somewhere just about. So am I. I’ve been with my boyfriend for four years and recently I’ve noticed him distancing himself away from me. I understand the huge hype for video games because I play them too, but… it’s a little different when he’s playing with other people. Of course, he can do whatever he likes. That goes without saying, but… he hosts Xbox live parties with people I don’t even know. I don’t know if they’re female or not and I do worry sometimes. He won’t respond to my messages while playing like he used to. (Not that I expect him to, but it’s just kind of out of the ordinary.) Now, I usually have to wait for his response after he’s finished playing, completely. Truthfully, my advice to you is to talk to him about it. I know I’m being a hypocrite for saying so because I’m too wimpy to bring this up with MY boyfriend, but I know it’s the right thing to do. To figure out what’s going on. I don’t know. Honestly, at this point, I don’t know either. I suppose I could be doing something wrong… Or maybe I’m missing something here… I’m not sure. I know I should just be patient but, maybe he’s truly not interested in me anymore.